How to juggle a full-time life and online college—without dropping the ball
By Rosanna Wakley
Knightly News Reporter
Weekends can easily become a blur, filled with errands, chores and tasks that pile up during a busy week. For adult learners balancing work, family and online classes, that pressure can build quickly. Without intentional planning, burnout is only a matter of time.
Now, I treat weekends differently. I intentionally carve out one day for household tasks and quality time with family. It is not a luxury; it is a reset button. That shift in mindset made a huge difference, not just in my mental health, but in my academic performance.
Successfully managing full-time life while earning a degree is not about doing it all. It is about doing what matters most, consistently and intentionally. With a few practical strategies, students can create a balance that keeps them moving forward.
The juggle is real
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Adult students often face a different set of challenges than traditional college students. Many are working full-time, raising children, managing households or caring for family members. Online programs offer the flexibility to pursue education on their own terms, but that flexibility comes with the need for structure and self-motivation. Without in-person accountability, the responsibility to stay on track falls squarely on the student. That means navigating deadlines, readings and projects alongside real-life responsibilities.
Managing time effectively is key to success. Creating a weekly routine with set blocks for study, work and personal time can reduce stress and build consistency. Designating part of the weekend for household responsibilities and family activities is one way to maintain balance and prevent personal needs from falling behind. Digital tools like Google Calendar or time-tracking apps can help students stay organized. Scheduling rest, just like any other task, ensures there is space to recharge and return to academic work with focus.
Build your support system
While online learning can feel solitary, students do not have to go it alone. A strong support system can make a major difference. Communicating clearly with family members and employers about class schedules and deadlines helps set realistic expectations. Connecting with classmates through discussion boards, study groups or class chats can also provide both academic help and a sense of community. Even a quick message of encouragement or clarification can remind students that others are navigating similar challenges.
Support systems are not just for practical needs; they also offer motivation, accountability and emotional reinforcement.
Student perspective: Finding purpose in the chaos
Belinda Inthiphan balances more than just coursework. She’s a mother, a wife and an employee working both full-time and part-time jobs. Her days start early and often end late, but her motivation stays strong.
“Being a mom, wife and working a full and part-time job is never easy, but knowing the reason for the hard work and dedication is worth it for my son,” Inthiphan said.
She works Mondays through Saturdays, reserving Sundays as family time. During the week, she still makes time to cook dinner and connect with her family before heading to her evening job, which often keeps her out until 10 p.m.
“Luckily, I have my husband’s help to get our son ready for bed, so when I get home, I’m able to tuck him in, read bedtime stories and give him good night kisses,” she said.
She typically does homework during the week to avoid being overwhelmed by the weekend. The family’s schedule is a tag-team effort, because her husband works overnight.
“My husband and I always say, ‘We’ll sleep when we’re dead,’” she joked. “But on holidays or days off, we never sleep in. We’re always up early planning day trips with our son.”
While some parents choose to take time for themselves, Inthiphan and her husband make a conscious effort to spend their free time as a family. Even on rare days off or during holidays, they prioritize planning day trips and shared experiences with their son instead of sleeping in or relaxing alone. For them, quality family time is more rewarding than time spent apart.
Though finding a moment to unwind alone is uncommon, it is a trade-off they are happy to make. Their approach reflects the mindset of many adult learners who navigate education while raising children when time is limited, meaningful connection with loved ones often takes precedence over rest.
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Inthiphan’s story highlights a common theme among nontraditional students: while the demands are high, a clear sense of purpose and strong family support can make all the difference.
Stay grounded, not just scheduled
When motivation fades, structure helps maintain momentum. Techniques like the Pomodoro method—working in focused 25-minute intervals with short breaks, can make large tasks feel more manageable. Small, consistent actions tend to produce better results than bursts of unsustainable effort. Mental health is just as important as academic performance. Taking breaks, enjoying short walks, spending time with loved ones or simply unplugging can provide clarity and prevent overwhelm. Students should also explore school-provided mental health resources, such as virtual counseling or wellness services, which are often available at no additional cost.
There’s no one right way
Balancing school with life looks different for everyone. Some learners thrive on detailed daily schedules, while others prefer broader weekly goals. The most important factor is finding a routine that fits personal responsibilities and energy levels. Flexibility is just as important as consistency. There will be tough days, missed goals and unexpected interruptions. These moments are not failures; they are part of the learning process. What matters is the ability to adjust and keep going.
Earning a degree while managing work, family and other responsibilities is no small feat. It takes determination, organization and resilience. The process might not always feel graceful, but every step forward, no matter how small—is meaningful.
Progress is built through consistency, not perfection. On tough days, showing up is an achievement. Over time, those efforts add up to real success. For anyone walking this path, remember you’re not alone, and you’re more capable than you think.
Stay focused, stay flexible and keep going. The goal is within reach.
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Edited by media-club co-adviser and blog editor Professor Michael Lear-Olimpi.
